Embracing your identity

Embracing your identity

People open up to me

Perhaps it’s due to the fact that I try not to judge

Perhaps, it’s that I lean in and simply listen

Engage

Where we come from, should not define what we are capable of

But if we allow it to, it can beautifully showcase our scars

I remember going on a date a few months ago

It was a second date

He was a bit more than nervous as he looked at me and told me there was something he’d like to share with me

I settled down into a comfy chair in my living room

“I’m a recovering meth addict” the words spilled out like a child confessing to their father and awaiting the wrath

“Thank you for sharing that with me, I appreciate it” I smiled quietly back at him

“Wow. I did not expect you to respond that way” the look of relief on his face told me so many things

Acceptance. Worth. Acknowledgment.

He felt like a human.

A real one.

And I thought to myself, are we not all real humans?

And how many lives could we change by simply treating others like a human?